NGR Theory

The world is amazing and people who live here are too much amazing. We Know each other with the help of respective name ,surname and unique identities.Some where ,some how many of us have same attributes..because of God sake.The world..... The nature...The God .....
differentiate all of us on the basis of different-different attributes like Name,Gender,age,Color,Caste,Place,Country,Language,Culture,Values,religion,Physical attributes,Socialism, etc .I know all of this characteristic/attributes really play vital role to create identification of anyone.
But still there is something missing.....
I am part of corporate world.There we have lot of roles to play therefore Need Skills/Strategies/Situations to play innings in another words I can say to Win or to survive here .With Keeping all of this fact in mind ,I have develop a unique theory called " NGR" for the differentiate or identification of person on the Basis of very basic nature of humans.As a Marketing Person ...our very first role is to know about person who is sitting in front of us mean what kind of person he/she is...?only After knowing exactly about them we can make any strategy or can be in position to move on further necessary steps ,If we are fail to know his/her basic attributes we could be fail to succeed.
So on the basis of Human's basic nature I Can divide entire population into three different parts.

First Group is represent by N(Need): Persons who came under this group are those who are needy....mean they have no enough economical powers/resources to arrange/purchase or consume basic needs like Foods,Cloth & Shelter although in broad way we can add other modern needs also in this philosophy like Better Education for their loving ones,better life style for their family,better reputation in society and should love to meet self satisfaction level for future securities in terms of money as well as alternative living hood arrangements with desired reputation and recognition within society.(Thoda Hai Thode Ki Jarurat Hai)
Persons who Came under this group easily identify by their acts and behavior.Even we can identify this thing in our very first meeting with them.I personally suggest ...that to know about some one & his/her nature you should meet him/her on his/her own place like either Home or working place that will help to be as indicator of his /her need or point out towards their emptiness.So advisable is to meet to them at their place & Keep open you eyes,ears properly and shut down your mouth.Just try to know about them as much as you can and go through necessary question answer session if require.


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Second Group is represent by G(Greed):Persons who came under this group are those who are Greedy by default nature....mean they have enough economical powers/resources to arrange/purchase or consume basic needs like Foods,Cloth & Shelter even that they are using all other facilities also like electric & electronic goods,vehicle,gadgets,etc but their wants & desires are endless.They love to have be luxurious and lavish life.They want everything with them only and always run behind Money & Power.They never live/sleep with peace and eat/consume anything with patience or you can say cant enjoy any moment of life with full of joy in heart. They are day dreamer & obviously shameless.
We can easily perceive this fact by our meeting with them although some time no need to meet them physically they shown their intentions and desires directly/indirectly in mean while time through any way of communication or through any act. If we physically get chance to interact with them than just need to watch towards their body language only , their body language speak all the story itself .their desires come out in mean whlie time by the any way ie in form of words or in form of facial expressions. We need to catch words & read Facial expressions only . Advisable is ...you should try to know his/her area of interest and discuss only about that or just start to discuss about lavish way to live life.


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Third Group is represent by R( Recognization ):Persons who came under this group are those who have everything by default or they have no need or greed ....mean they have enough economical powers/resources to arrange/purchase or consume basic needs like Foods,Cloth & Shelter as well modern needs.They have luxurious and lavish life or no interest in this aspect of life.In this group two kind of persons are included ,first who are successful and recognized time to time on various platforms and love to be famous and recognized .the others are those have enough capability to do something or doing well but never recognized in fruit of their efforts or deeds.
Both Kind Persons are identify by the way of talking with them about their carrier interest and their hobbies/area of interest.And some time through directly asking about their incomplete indeed & wishes .Just Shown them their hidden strengths & recognize them anywhere than lets see what will be they do for you.



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If

If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:

If you can dream - and not make dreams your master,
If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:


If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it all on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breath a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on!"


If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings - nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And - which is more - you'll be a Man, my son!
Rudyard Kipling (1865-1936)

I am

I deserve to be,
I want to be,
I can be,
I will be,
I am.

If you want to change your life you need to change how you think and change what you do. Self-help, personal change, being happy: it's up to you. No-one else.
You decide. This is the first step. Self-help starts with you. Self-help and personal change starts with your realisation that it really is in your own hands, and your decision to do something about it.
Your own self-belief is the key to successful life-change, achievement, contentment, and happiness.
Your own mind, particularly positive suggestion and visualisation, will develop your self-belief, and your determination to make successful change to your life.
This page will help you begin to change the way you think, feel and act.
Visit it any time you want to boost your self-belief, to relax, and to regain control of your life and direction.
Print this page and put it above your mirror, above your bed, above your desk, anywhere you'll see it every day.
Make time - actually schedule some time in your planner or diary to do this. It will dramatically improve your mood, attitude, and approach to life, and therefore what you get from life.
Positive suggestion and visualisation, combined with deep relaxation, is an easy way to make powerful positive personal change.
Just going through this relaxation exercise alone will help to change and improve the way you feel. If you combine the relaxation techniques with a repeated script of positive statements, such as the 'I am' script below, you will begin change the way you think, and feel, and act, and all that life offers as a result.
The more you use the relaxation exercise and say or hear the script, then the greater and more sustainable will be the effect.
The time it takes to change depends on different people. Stick with it and it will become easier, more natural, more enjoyable, and it will work.
relaxation exercise
Sit or lie down comfortably. Properly comfortably. Straighten your back, put your shoulders back to open your rib-cage.
Relax your shoulder muscles particularly. Relax your whole body, and empty your mind.
Close your eyes (obviously open them when you need to read the next stage).
Take ten deep, slow breaths. Breathe from the pit of your stomach and feel your lungs filling.
Focus on your breathing. Feel it getting deeper and slower. Feel yourself relaxing and any tension drifting away.
Relax your shoulders and neck again.
Visualise yourself being happy, succeeding, winning, being loved, laughing, feeling good.
Relax your forehead, your mouth and your eyes.
Allow a gentle smile to appear on your face as you feel a calmness enter your mind.
Then say (out load ideally) the words below (a script for personal change) to yourself:
i am
I am good person.
I have integrity.
I do what is ethically right and good.
Whatever life puts before me will be useful experience that will make me stronger, wiser, and more tolerant.
I am strong enough to understand and make allowances for other people's weaknesses, and their behaviour towards me. Other people's behaviour is about them, not me.
I focus on the joy of living my life and helping others where and when I can.
I am what I eat and drink, so I eat and drink good things.
I am what I watch and play and listen, so I watch and play and listen to good positive things.
I take exercise which I enjoy. I walk when I don't need to drive or take the bus or train.
I smile and laugh whenever I can - life is good - getting caught in the rain reminds me that it is good to be alive to feel it.
I forgive other people. Deep down everyone is a good person, just like me.
I am a compassionate and loving, caring person.
I am a good person.
I am.

khamoshi

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mana tu door hai meri pahunch se

phir bhi

tujhe mere aas paas dundhata hu!
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har pal tere saath bite lamhe dundhta hu!


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Khamosh sahar

khamosh galiyo me

teri aawaz dundhta hu.....